The Wisdom Of Children and how to unleash your inner child...

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Childhood means simplicity. Look at the world with the child’s eye – it is very beautiful. – Kailash Satyarthi

A Little Boy In Vietnam 

It was a sunny afternoon and I was sat in a park in Vietnam writing my journal when I was momentarily distracted by a young child playing in a sand pit.

The little boy was finding so much joy in building simple sand castles. He was laughing so much, completely absorbed in the moment, and oblivious to everything else that was going on around him.

I was blown away by how happy the child was. It was beautiful to witness and this image stuck in my head for the rest of the day.

Later that evening, I got home and typed in to the internet. “How much does a child laugh each day?”

I was astonished by the results. Not only does the average 4-6 year old laugh between 300-400 times a day, but I also discovered that the average 40 year old adult only manages to squeeze out a pathetic 15-20 laughs per day.

What??????

This blew my mind, and questions started racing through my head:

What is going on here?
Why aren’t adults laughing as much as children?
What is happening between childhood and adulthood?

I thought about these questions a lot and I came to the conclusion that society is playing a big impact, and I want to spend the rest of the article exploring my perspective on the issue, and what we can learn from children.

 

The Adult Power Game

We live in a society which teaches us to live a certain way.

From a young age we are conditioned to conform and play the adult power game:

Follow the rules and don’t question authority.
Abide by the curriculum, get good grades and go to university.
Get a job and fit into society.
Live to work. Work for retirement.
Compete and accumulate as much as possible in the process.
Keep on racing to that end goal of happiness.
Shit on others to reach the top.
Congratulations, you’ve arrived and now you set to live your life and be happy.
Retire with stress and ill health.
Try to enjoy travelling for the last 3 years of your life.
Die rich and miserable.

The major problem is that we are taught the adult power game before we are old enough to resist and think for ourselves.

If we don’t play the adult power game and rebel, we’re labelled as an outcast.

Like a one size fits all pair of gloves, we’re taught to believe that this is the route we need to take in life.

But what if that route isn’t right? what if the adult power game isn’t for you?

That’s a totally plausible scenario.

What if you decided to reject the adult power game and looked on the other side of the coin from the point of a child?

Maybe, just maybe, they hold the real secret to life and there’s no need to play the adult power game at all?
 

 

Becoming Wise Means Becoming a Child Again

We can learn a lot from children. The problem is we don’t want to.

We’re older, wiser, more experienced and think we know what life is.

But we don’t.

Adults run around thinking there is something important to achieve, whereas a child just plays, and knows that being alive is the most important thing.

That’s because children hold the real secret to life.

They laugh. They smile. They don’t judge. They have no purpose. They find beauty in the seemingly unimportant things. They are close to the origins of life.

It is from the point of the child that we see and experience the world without judgement or prejudice.

Children really do remind us what is important in life and it’s crucial to reconnect with our child like selves, by thinking back to what you used to do when you were young:

•How did you spend your day?
•Who were you with?
•What did you like doing?
•What kind of ideas came into your head?

Answers to these questions are crucial because real wisdom comes from seeing past the adult power game and learning how to become a child again.

 

Conclusion

It’s a plausible narrative that wisdom comes with age, but observing a child teaches us that wisdom flows from from below up, not above down.

We can learn a lot from the younger generation, if we’re willing to drop our ego and let go of thinking we know better.

Children are born with the real secret of life, and that is to appreciate beauty in the seemingly insignificant and experience life exactly how it is given to them without any expectations or prejudice.

Thanks for reading and all the best,

Dan Beaumont, Thursday 11th February 2016


About the Author

Hello everyone, I’m Daniel – a 27 year old writer from the north of England, currently living in Bucharest, Romania, where I’m currently writing my first book.

I am passionate by the human experience, especially the connection between travel, life and personal development.

Since 2012 I’ve been on transformational journey, travelling 40 countries across 4 continents.

During my journey, I discovered that travel is a great catalyst for one’s personal growth, and now I want to share want i’ve learned and empower others to embark on their own personal travel journey.

Feel free to read more about my story or get in touch with me here if you have question.


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1 Comment

  1. Awesome job and we’ll said.

    Yes, many of us are programed to live life backwards. Instead of following the norm going through the progression of social protocol of the adult power game, we should try to enjoy life with PMA ( Positive Mental Attitude ). Take a day off to absorb the simple things in life, stop to smell the roses and appreciate what surrounds us. MAXIMIZE your day by starting off watching the sunrise, disconnect from social media and do something that brings you back to a childhood memory. Smile, laugh and play. Then watch the sunset and reflect on what a great day you experienced. Rest and repeat.

    Russ

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